Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!
You know word of the breakup and man you know it’s such an emotional and trying time.
I hope it comes across helpful for you but I’ll probably would do a little bumbling but look what happens a lot of times somebody gets that initial breakup whether being a letter or face-to-face and they just kind of go insane for a little while.
That’s mean that’s the best way to put it just kind of insanity and they start doing sms there text messaging back and forth and and just trying to figure figure out what’s happened.
I do they have somebody else they’re really saying what they’re telling you the truth why are they breaking out professing their undying love another common occurrence but I called drunk dialing that’s when you go out you try to forget about everything but you go out and have a few drinks and before you know it you’re on the phone dialing up your ex talking to your ex and basically you know kind of making a fool out of yourself and know if you’ve done that don’t feel bad that happens to so many people.
You would just not believe and you know I’ve been there before too so what do you do and the thing you should do is count is very very counterintuitive to what you feel inside and what you what happens so instead of doing the drunk dialing the text message terrorism.
We’re trying to get in front of them and and you know trying to keep that relationship together you got to kind of do what I call it’s a kind of ninja, kind of jujitsu.
If you’ve ever heard of jujitsu or what is that judo what you want to do is kind of use the force.
You know their plot applying a karate chop to you you want to use that force not against but you want to use that force and kind of deflect it and that is really your first move and you’re probably what the heck are you talking about to you to have you just totally confuse me!
So here’s what I mean the first thing you would do is you just want to agree with the break-up !
okay, you want to agree with the breakup and you made a bit or to be past this point.
I’m going to talk about that here in a second but in a perfect world in a theoretical situation you know they say “John, you know this is not working out I’m done I’ve had it that’s it” and what John should do say “you know what you’re right I’ve seen this coming and a breakup is the best thing for both of us !” in fact if he could you don’t want to overplay it but would be really good as if you took that and went a step further and kind of made that like his freedom. yeah!
How You can Get your Ex back?
So here’s what you have to do:
- Don’t contact your ex. your ex would think he/she is the best person for you.
- Don’t post negativity on social media.
- Don’t hurt yourself.
- Don’t just get into relationships easily.
- Go out with friends and meet new people.
- Start doing something that’s been on the Back burner.
- Take pictures.
Tips to Get Your Ex Back!
- There is no question that it is hard to get your ex back. Keep in mind that it may not work and if it doesn’t work, you want to maintain your control and dignity.
- Some relationships weren’t meant to be. Don’t keep it going if the other person is clearly not interested.
- Be aware it takes some time, don’t lose your faith.
- Casually bring up past memories or inside jokes to make him/her feel what they once did.
- Show him that you are fine without him. It will be clear to him that you aren’t an obsessed ex girlfriend, but it will also show him that you’re having fun without him, which may result in him missing you more.
- Keep him/her guessing about a few things happening in your life, so that he/she misses the times when you shared everything with them.
Risk To Get Your Ex Back!
- Getting back together is a risk. You may have progressed as a person and felt some independence during your time apart, but your ex may put you back at square one if you agree to go back.
- Avoid any behavior that can be construed as harassment, stalking, or otherwise illegal or unethical. In many places in the world, you can be put on a restraining order or even in prison if your behavior crosses the line from romantic pursuit to stalking.
Is it really possible to get an ex back?
A Study showed just 15% of people actually won their ex back, while 14% got back together just to break up again, and 70% never reconnected at all. But although it sounds like a small number, a few success stories showed how it is possible to work things out if you put the time and effort in.
How Do I Make My Ex Miss Me?
You want to remind your ex why he or she liked you, but you also want to still give the person space to miss you.
Try this rule of thumb: let your ex contact you twice as much as you are contacting him or her.
Did you see what I’m saying ? so what he would do is say you know what I’m glad you brought that up because I’ve been thinking the same thing for a long time and it’s probably the best thing to do now you’re thinking well you know what t-dub I’m way past that point, I’ve already done all the text message terrorism you know, I’ve talked to their parents, I’ll talk to their brothers and sisters and you know I’ve kind of put myself in a bad position!
So what do you do now there’s a lot of different opening moves and but one of the most effective ones it’s just to write a short hand written letter and just say hey you know what I was kind of acting kind of crazy but you’re exactly right.
I agree that you know we should be split up we should be broken up and it’s probably the best thing for both of us and that is your opening move right there and it is an opening move, it’s not!
It’s the like the opening chess move it’s not the end of the game it’s not the or anything but you have to get on their side you have to agree with them.
You have to let them go before they’re ever going to want to come back there’s a lot of reasons why this works one of them is if people want what they can’t have and we all know this and it works it in other fields to in finances and banking you know when is the hardest time to get credit when you have zero credit they don’t to give you any credit.
If you don’t have any credit it’s only if you have money you know they want to give you credit or have if you have credit they’ll give you some credit so it’s a tough situation the same thing with job!
How do you get a job you don’t have any experience you got to have that experience first and there’s there’s some point in there where you just got to get some traction there but that is your opening move and what the rest of course the magic of making up does is take that opening move and tells you where you should go from there but that just that opening move is extremely helpful and I’ve seen a bring back a lot of relationships just by getting that opening move out there.
And saying hey you know what I agree with the breakup!
I’m calm, yeah I’m cool !
You don’t say I’m calm and cool but you want to give that tone that you’re calm and you’re cool and you’re collected about it and you’re right hey you know what you’re exactly right as the best thing both of us could’ve done.
Let me give you a little example really really quick!
I had a guy just email me he was set to go to the Bahamas with his girlfriend.
He’s quite frantic really nice guy he’s quite frantic. His girlfriend has told him just recently that it’s not funny but she told just recently that she wanted to still go to the Bahamas with him but just go as friends now this fella I’m not going to tell you his name “romy” and said hey you know what do I do?
Do I take her along and take her along just as friends?
You know we’re not really broken up and you know first thing is that when a girl tells you they just want to go to Bahamas as friends.
The eager broken up!
ok, so what he should do is not even cancel trips!
The all his friends are tell them to cancel the trip and you don’t even want to cancel the trip!!
What you should do say hey you know what you’re right and I’ve been even been thinking about doing this breakup!
you know I’m gonna do is don’t worry about the Bahamas I’m gonna take a “friend” and he is not to say who it is I’m gonna take a friend with me the Bahamas.
We’re doing and at the time of her lives and that would be his opening move.
Now I know you’re sending, oh my gosh! what about you know she who’s a friend !
If she asked who the friend is ? you say “I’m not sure” yet you just kind of leave that open.
You’re okay with the break up your go on continue with your life in fact you’re going to go on in and make your life fabulous so if you already beyond that point. Try that letter handwritten, don’t text message it ! don’t, don’t call him and tell him, just run a really fast handwritten letter and fire that off to them and you want to be the okay with a breakup !
Say hey you know you’re right that was the best thing both of us could possibly do and that is your opening move and then you got to get with yourself and be okay with it yourself once you do that you’re on the right Road it works and it works very well !
If you are in pain and confused?
If you’ll take my hand, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…
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